Not all women are uninhibited in bed, which is characteristic of many men. There is always the fear that something could go wrong, to make a bad impression, to leave a bad memory of oneself during a one night stand, or to make the wrong approach with the partner with whom you would like to build something lasting. Nowadays, a person's sexual abilities are based on a rating scale where 10 equals the ``porn’’ level.
The reality is that not all services of escorts Rome Italy must necessarily be those of porn movies to be considered quality services, even if pornography can definitely help to refine some techniques and stay informed on the latest trends. Here are some things men love to be done in bed and what a woman who knows how to do usually does, remembering that the best thing is to always be yourself, having fun.
What to do to be on top under the sheets
The Daily Mail published a long time ago a ranking of things a good woman in bed always knows how to do. Drawn up by professor and sexologist Tracey Cox, the list is made up of the following points:
- Do not judge: men much prefer women who do not have the stench under their noses and who above all do not judge. Of course, a person's opinions will always exist in every context of life, but accepting the characteristics of the partner (whether it is momentary or not) helps the positive development of the relationship. Being open-minded is key in any industry, not just sex.
- Use imagination and inventiveness: women "hunters" excite several boys. It is also for this reason that among the favorite categories of men, the figure of a mature woman successfully makes its way, such as cougars, so-called precisely because they know they are real hot predators. However, it does not mean that a younger woman cannot acquire the techniques for a proper experience. Instead, we must be very careful to avoid routine. To end up in a spiral of endless boredom would be depressing. Experimentation is an element that must never be underestimated in order to always bring an air of novelty.
- Discretion: avoid faking orgasms; avoid screaming like coarse even if you are a very good actress; always inquire about what your partner likes to avoid inhibiting himself. The feeling created during sex communicates more than a physical simulation will ever do.
- Compliment: Not only are women insecure. Before a performance, men are even more nervous because, of course, their arousal is visible right away. And just one detail, a small moment of devolution, is enough to make him lose his erection. A woman who knows how to gratify the man through compliments has understood everything about how to carry out a sexual relationship, and to continue to keep him focused by exciting him more and more, is a touch of a true teacher.
- Oral sex: what wouldn't a man do for a mouth job? He would travel on foot from Sicily to Switzerland, arriving at his destination in just one day.
Is mental arousal worth more than techniques?
While oral sex is considered basic, much more difficult for a man to achieve is anal sex. Complicated because for women it is less inclined, while men are stimulated by anal in a different way; they have the ability to ejaculate inside the female body without worrying about the consequences and their orgasm is more intense, given the greater grip.
Another practice that drives the man crazy, without involving either the oral cavity or the anal cavity, is the hand-job, from the complete one to the one that focuses only on the tip.
If a woman is willing to apply the above techniques, she is already well on her way to the sexual conquest of her prey.
Men notice when she is a genuine lover of sex: he perceives it when she puts others' needs first rather than her own.
But even before sex, mental arousal is of paramount importance. It goes hand in hand with physics.
You start to stimulate his imagination with a bit of dirty talking in order to get him loaded; It is also useful to wear sexy lingerie (elegant or more aggressive according to his preferences), give him a striptease ... (if you are able, otherwise better leave it alone) and then conclude with after sex based on pampering.
Communication is always the first brick for building something. If there is chemistry between two people, even better. Listening to your partner and inquiring about their preferences helps a lot.
For those who are still beginners, knowing how to move their bodies can be difficult. Not everyone is born with 'talent'. It would be enough, however, to learn to know the physiognomy of male erogenous zones and to know how to find the right points to stimulate.
Compared to many years ago, girls are more open about sex than in the past. The historical period in which we live and our Western culture makes us freer to live our sexuality.
Still, some things remain the same: the male ego must always be pleased.
Soft skills before the physical approach
Does having sympathy and humor help during intercourse? Obvious that. They are both excellent weapons of conquest, as well as intelligence, respect for oneself, love for one's body, and knowing how to be comfortable with others. Even the timidest, over time, will be able to adapt to intimacy. But you should, first of all, get in touch with your body and venture out to discover yourself, day after day. Masturbation, in this case, is the best way to go.
Although being comfortable without clothes is not easy at first glance, self-love helps to develop a certain awareness.
The last element that is considered important but that many tend to underestimate is looking people in the eyes. Often this is not done in order not to be intrusive or to not create too deep connections with unknown people. But in reality, the conquest always starts from the look. Knowing how to control it puts you on a higher level, because you will know how to handle anyone, in any situation. Unfortunately, not all meetings are successful, and knowing how to be aware of who you are and knowing how to 'discipline' who we have ahead through the gaze, will make you emerge victorious from embarrassing and annoying situations.
You will be able to communicate who you are and what you want, having the possibility to choose rather than be chosen.